PinnedTop 5 lessons Kilimanjaro taught meWhy? Just why? This is the question that I asked myself endless times during the six-day trek I took to reach the summit of Kilimanjaro, Africa’s highest point and the world’s tallest free-standing mountain. After more than 70 kilometers under rain and snow, I was able to achieve a dream…Travelling5 min read
Apr 30Why do we stay in Toxic Relationships?It fascinates me how memory tends to trick us into downsizing certain negative experiences to ease the process of getting over them. We think something was bad but if we get the opportunity to relive a glimpse of it we realize that it was traumatizing. While naively looking for a…Relationships5 min read
Jan 2Why new year resolutions rarely work?It’s safe to say that we love fresh starts. No matter what the context is, we enjoy clicking the reset button and getting a new chance at making things “right”. That’s why it is commonly believed among many cultures around the world that when that clock strikes midnight, something will…New Year4 min read
Dec 26, 2021What growing up with Domestic Violence taught meIronically, the most fascinating aspect of this world lies in how appalling and atrocious personal experiences can carry valuable life lessons. While this topic weighs a ton over my head whenever it comes up, I realize that facing the truth and stating the facts might be a step in the…Domestic Violence4 min read
Dec 19, 2021Top 5 things NOT to say to your childrenI think it’s safe to say that most of our psychological and mental health problems can be traced back to our childhood. While some of us were luckier with our biological parents, many others weren’t. I am commonly known for my very controversial views about parenting and family structure. I…Family5 min read
Dec 12, 2021Why everyone assumes I’m dating my best friend?Blessed..that’s the word that pops in my mind when I think of the unyielding support system that I have. Friends to the true meaning of the word. They make me feel like I’m the richest person in the world. I’m not going to lie or pretend that it was a…Friendship4 min read
Dec 11, 2021How did I survive the worst night of my life?Gathering the necessary mental strength to write this down was not an easy task. We have all been through that one traumatizing event that we want to keep buried deep down as we see no added value in talking about it and sharing it. We simply don’t find comfort in…Mental Health4 min read
Dec 11, 2021How did my parents’ divorce save my life?Even though this sounds like a sad story, I always chose to tell it in a happy way. I don’t know if it’s the optimist in me that keeps looking at it positively. But one thing I know for sure is that I refuse to take part in a stereotypical…Divorce4 min read
Dec 11, 2021Is fatherhood a real thing?I did not like my father when I was growing up. Straight and simple right? Why not! I’m not going to write a paragraph that keeps going in circles and trying to insinuate that my father is a hopeless case of carelessness. Do I need to bother? The obvious should…Fatherhood4 min read
Dec 11, 2021The 6th Floor WindowI remember gazing at the bottom of it, wondering why I am so fascinated by heights. Is it the beautiful scenery? Is it a sense of freedom? Or is it the feeling of detachment that it provided from my everyday life? I cannot recall how much time I spent looking…Short Story3 min read